Category Archives: Life & Being Human

Living with Regret (the movie that won’t stop playing)

You know that thing your brain does at midnight? When it decides to screen every [...]

When Words Fail (what to say when someone is grieving)

This piece is for the moments when someone you care about is hurting and you [...]

Mass Gaslighting (when entire societies lose their grip on reality)

You’re here because something feels deeply wrong about the world, but when you try to [...]

What You See Is What You Are (and that’s the problem)

Let’s talk about something nobody wants to admit: you’re not seeing reality. You’re seeing your [...]

Four Paws of Mindfulness (what my dog taught me about presence, love & being seen)

The Tao of Doof (mastering the art of living) Doof* doesn’t wake me in the [...]

Discovering Your Authentic Self (a path to self-acceptance)

You’re exhausted from trying to be everything at once. Confident but humble. Ambitious but grateful. [...]

To My Sun-Loving Yogi (grieving my dog)

No matter how many times I say to myself, “She had a good, full life,” [...]

Grief in the Body (why movement feels impossible & why it matters)

Why Movement Is Both Impossible and Essential Grief doesn’t just happen in your mind or [...]

How to Accept Yourself Completely (the power of radical self-acceptance)

You’re a walking contradiction. You want connection but need solitude. You crave stability while yearning [...]

Emotional Pain (when “sit with your feelings” feels impossible)

“Sit with your pain, be with it,” he said.I smiled, screaming inside:“You have no frickin’ [...]

7 Types of Grief That Exist (ready or not)

Grief doesn’t follow the neat timeline they sold you. It’s not five stages you graduate [...]

Moving for Health Reasons (how I created my own luck after lyme disease)

Creating Luck Survival Disguised as Success You know, for the longest time, my life up [...]

Why That Person Drives You Crazy (what your triggers reveal about you)

The Person You Can’t Stand Is Trying to Tell You Something I was hate-scrolling someone’s [...]

When Grief Needs Company

Wolves keep showing up in my mind for one reason. When a pack loses one [...]

Everyone Lives in a Bubble (and that’s not a problem)

Everyone Lives in a Bubble (and that’s not a problem) Someone told me recently that [...]

Feeling Lonely in a Screen-Filled World (social media depression & digital disconnection)

Longing for Connection in a Screen-Filled World You know that specific emptiness that hits at [...]

Grieving Someone Who Is Still Alive (ambiguous loss)

Into the Silence of Broken Bonds There’s a kind of loss that has no funeral, [...]

This Is Going to Take a While

I saw a documentary about elephants. Late, volume low. There was a scene where one [...]

Acceptance Isn’t Peace (the exhausting truth about accepting loss)

Acceptance (barefoot through brambles) For months I kept doing this stupid trick. I’d wake up [...]

I Don’t Want Anything

No resolutions, no goals. Nothing. And somehow… that feels exactly right. For everyone who’s craving [...]